Some of the hardest thing to experience in life are relationships break up. Spending sleepless night tossing and turning over a relationship break up. worst still, thoughts of committing suicide.

you must be thinking wats wrong with me when i am already happy with what i have. i am not sure too.
its been such a long time since that break up. and i have totally forgot how i manage to pull through for that 14 mths.

glad... i am so glad everything is over.... if not, i would still be in that pool of shit and wouldnt have such a great guy with me now. My relieved of ending a misery and welcoming a new happiness changed my life. Making me the happiest woman on earth. My guy who has all it takes to be a great boy-friend and husband, gives me all the love i needed. why will i ever wanna face another break up when i have already met my soul partner. (if you think i am such a show-off, you can just close the freaking window cuz i didnt force you to read it.) haha... seriously, i am not in a rush to get married or whatsoever... just stating what i think. :D :D

anyway, for frenze out there if you ever face a break up (hope you will not),
-grieve all you want over it; having a close frenze to accompany you often, might work too...
-keep yourself busy
-dunn resort to drinking cuz it doesnt helps in anyway and its harming yourself.
-getting something nice that you like. (shopping...catching a movie)
-if you are dealing with the end of a very long term relationship, take a trip. Travel can be a perfect way to allow you the chance to put your life into a new perspective.
-dunn dive into a new relationship immediately. These rebound relationships normally are nothing more than a recipe for disaster.

Good Luck people.... :D :D